But the fact is, if that person had been right you'd have stayed together. A year and a half ago my ex from 15 years ago emailed saying he was thinking of me and still had some feelings. She transferred a substantial amount of money into a bank account under my name only. US blames Iran for 'probable death' of ex-FBI agent He went missing over 13 years ago and is presumed dead. Do you know how to block on Facebook...we have a couple of mutual friends so he came up as a tag, but otherwise i haven't heard anything about him or seen him for this long! I'm glad I did. I moved away, and met a lovely man that did - we have a child together and we are not married. It opened up a whole can of worms which left lasting effects for well over a year. My memories all seem tainted now. … save hide report. Do you feel something is missing?I know when I was miserable in my relationship with my ex, I would focus on other men (didn't do anything) but with think of exes, or men I knew and start idealising them. He probably brings back fun and carefree uni memories. I said I thought we'd marry so was hurt to hear he had married and had two children and opened up to him, feeling vulnerable considering I've never married or experienced the joy of having children. Having contact with him stirred up a lot of fantasy. Next thing you know, déjà vu creeps up as you re-read their favorite novel at their go-to café. Yes, he may have been the one that broke it off, but I was young, immature, and lacking any form of self-confidence. It is just this relationship - I think about no one else from the past. Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. Joined: 16 years ago. Had enough of my family. How long was your relationship with this guy? Nothing happened but I spent way too much of my time thinking about him. I turned him down for a meet up in a hotel. I had a relationship with someone 20 years ago. Posted by 3 months ago. I can relate. He was my first boyfriend, and I his first girlfriend, and we dated for nearly five years before I broke up with him. Page 1 / 4 . This question already has answers here: Compiling/Executing a C# Source File in Command Prompt (15 answers) Closed 4 years ago. Christian :Biesinger (don't email me, ping me on IRC) Comment 11 • 15 years ago. I had an email from him last week and I guess the answer is to not reply/have any contact?? Who would even know 400 people willing to break LD law? Then he did the same again after months of no contact.I felt confused, totally stirred up, and decided it wasn't healthy or ok to be waiting for a message from him. no, this is exthandler/uriloader. I think you need to focus on your current relationship and why you are thinking of someone else. 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